Every girl has felt this way at least once in her life, even if it was back in high school. You meet a guy who is perfect in every way “ looks, personality, whatever it is that turns you on. And, of course, he’s taken. And that little devil on you shoulder says So? Steal him.
This doesn’t apply to the guy and girl couple that was on the verge of breaking up any way, and you just gave him a gentle nudge toward you. This is the clear cut case of you convincing that hot guy that he is unhappy in his current relationship (even if he isn’t), and that he will be so much happier as your boyfriend.
If you’ve ever been tempted to steal another girl’s guy, here are some reasons why you shouldn’t:
A guy who can be stolen from a girl can probably be stolen again.
Just another version of the once-a-cheater-always-a-cheater theory. If a guy is easily (or even not so easily) stolen by you from his girl, he probably won’t be so hard to steal away from you.
The flip side to this (ironic, I know, but it happens) is that your new boyfriend may wonder how long it will be before you start looking for another new guy to steal? After all, if part of what you did was for the thrill of the chase, now that he’s been caught, the thrill is over.
It hurts people’s feelings.
That may sound sappy but it’s true. Unless his girlfriend is your mortal enemy (and even then think twice, see below), stealing another girl’s guy leads to heart break, distrust, hurt feelings, etc. Now why would a fabulous girl like you want to do that to someone?
Ever hear of karma?
If for some reason you haven’t, karma is the universe’s way of making sure you get paid back for every wicked thing you do (no, not those wicked things, so relax.) So think twice before you steal another girl’s boyfriend, because that’s probably pretty high on the karma pay-back list. Not that your grandma is going to get run over the day after you steal another girl’s guy, but hey, you never know¦
Angry ex-girlfriend. No joke, a few years ago in the USA, a nurse anesthesiologist poisoned a woman in a doctor’s recovery room for stealing her boyfriend 30 YEARS before. Women can get mighty upset when someone steals their guy. If you’re not prepared to deal with the angry ex girlfriend, who may be vindictive (or even crazy as shown above), don’t do it.
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