You do it every year “ you commit to losing weight and saving money and being a better you¦but what about being a better we? Here’s a look at four resolutions you can make this year to make the best out of your relationship.
Bring sexy back
So many people strive for a partner that they can feel completely comfortable and at ease with and then they find it and *poof* the sexiness is gone. Go back to those early days of your relationship and vow to make more of an effort to maintain the little things that kept the sexy firmly in place “ close the bathroom door, shave your legs every day, and wear your sexy underwear more often.
Don’t vent to them
Often we get caught up in our relationship and the things that we used to go to our girlfriends to vent about is now that stuff that we go to our man about. Well vow to nix that in the butt ASAP. For women it is natural to want to talk about our problems, but for men it can be absolutely agonizing. Keep the negativity about your bitchy boss or your terrible period cramps to yourself or between you and your girls. He doesn’t want to hear it, nor does he need to.
Be fully present
Leave your job at the office, turn off your phone, and don’t eat in front of the tv. Place more focus on becoming an active listener and being more present within your own relationship. This doesn’t mean you have to do this every single night, but make an effort to do it far more often than you probably are right now. We guarantee the impact on your relationship will be one you will notice ten-fold.
Leave you past behind¦for good
Make a promise to yourself that this will be the year that you finally leave the past behind you. Let go of the people and the things that have hurt you in the past and let yourself be free to enjoy all the beautiful and amazing things you have going on in your life right now. Including your relationship. A deeper appreciation for the gift you have been giving will be sometime that will pay off for the rest of the year and onwards.