Mistakes That Will Ruin Your New Relationship

With every relationship there is give and take as you get to know each other, and both of you will undoubtedly make mistakes that you will laugh about later on. However, there are some gaffes that are almost guaranteed to ruin your relationship and send your guy running.

Try your best to avoid the following:

Trying to change your man
He is who he is, and no amount of sweet-talking, nagging, or bribery is going to change him. If he has been hunting and fishing with his friends since he was 12, he will probably never become vegetarian. Accept the fundamental things about your man “ it’s why you first fell in love with him, after all.

Being insecure
Constantly putting yourself down and fishing for compliments and reassurance will either (a) make him start believing all the negative things you’re saying about yourself or (b) make him really tired of having to cater to your neediness.

Showing excessive emotion
Nobody likes a drama queen. If everything he does makes your cry, scream, break down or storm off in a huff, you will quickly find yourself without an audience.

Becoming possessive
We’re all individuals and need to be treated as such. You wouldn’t want him following you around, wanting to know where you are every minute, who you’re with and what you’re doing. Show him the same respect (and trust).

Calling or texting relentlessly
See above. Give your guy a break. Your neediness and controlling behavior will alienate him and break your bond.

Asking about his exes
Live in the moment. He’s with you because it didn’t work out with the others. Maybe he was dumped, maybe he did the dumping and feels badly about the way he did it, maybe he caught her cheating.

Don’t make him relive it by probing. You don’t need to know anything about his exes “ only that you are a far better choice.

Bringing up your exes
Refrain from referring “ or worse yet, comparing him “ to your past loves. Nothing good will ever come of it.

Showing up uninvited
Don’t just drop by at his workplace, or over his friends’ or family’s house unless he explicitly invites you. From a man, this behavior would be called stalking.

Using silly nicknames or baby talk
What’s fun in the bedroom is not always fine out on the street. Use your discretion and don’t embarrass him in public.

Talking marriage
You haven’t even been on your third date and already you’re debating the merits of princess versus cushion cut. This is one of the fastest ways to scare him straight out of your arms.

What’s the quickest way to ruin a relationship in your opinion? Let us know!

Sympatico Image

Mistakes_That_Will_Ruin_Your_New_Relationship_150x150.jpg

Tags: dating deal-breakers, how to keep your man, mistakes that ruin relationship

Related Posts

Previous Post Next Post

Comments

  1. Avatar
    • Jaclyn
    • May 29, 2018
    Reply

    Men need to think about the signals they throw off. If a guy says he wants to marry me and then stalls, BYE! I’m too old for men’s games.

  2. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    If you always feel insecure about everything you say or do, it probably means that the person you’re with isn’t the right one, and if you’re constantly putting yourself down, you should keep it to yourself. I do that, but the thing is, you can’t hold all of it in, you can say one bad thing about yourself avery once in a while (or less, situation depending.) But what really turns me off is when the other person cheats, lies, goes way too fast, or tries to get you into bed really quick, some people do in fact wish to stay celibate until marriage.
  3. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    If you always feel insecure about everything you say or do, it probably means that the person you’re with isn’t the right one, and if you’re constantly putting yourself down, you should keep it to yourself. I do that, but the thing is, you can’t hold all of it in, you can say one bad thing about yourself avery once in a while (or less, situation depending.) But what really turns me off is when the other person cheats, lies, goes way too fast, or tries to get you into bed really quick, some people do in fact wish to stay celibate until marriage.
  4. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    What turnes me off are women who lies and pretends. Further more those people who date two or more men a the same and when it comes to ligh denies t or say he is just good friend.
  5. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    What turnes me off are women who lies and pretends. Further more those people who date two or more men a the same and when it comes to ligh denies t or say he is just good friend.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.