There are some things that your guy just wishes you knew without him having to tell you:
He is listening, even if it doesn’t seem like it
I know, I know, we love to accuse our guys of not listening to us. And sometimes his lack of interaction may cause us to think he has tuned us out. But many times, he’s just quiet because he really is listening. We need to relax and go with that.
He watches porn
And it has nothing to do with who you are, how you look, or the way you act in bed. Men love sex and they love women, and most of them do indulge in some online triple-x action. They love to look at naked women, and looking at naked women acting provocatively just makes it that much better. Don’t take it personally. And if he hides it from you, it’s probably because he’s just embarrassed, not because he is cheating on you. I know many women may disagree with this, but disagreeing with it isn’t going to make it go away.
He is never going to tell you how many women he’s really slept with
In his mind, maybe you’ll think he’s inexperienced because he has only had one or two lovers. Or maybe you’ll think he’s a player if the number is too high. And since he doesn’t know what that actual too high or too low number may be, he’s going to play it safe. Of course, if he tells you he’s had over 100 lovers, I’d think twice before I became number 101.
Men just don’t talk about their feelings the way women do
They don’t call their guy friends to talk about clothes, diets, or celebrities. If your guy loves you, in most cases, you’ll know it. Don’t expect him to talk about it all the time. Or to want to discuss his feelings of jealousy, intimidation, inadequacy, etc. There may be times when he will open up and talk to you, but it’s unlikely that it will happen all the time.
Looking at other women does not mean he is going to cheat/is cheating/will cheat on you
He’s just looking. Guys love women (see above). And it’s only natural they are going to look at them. If you don’t believe me, don’t just watch when he is looking, watch to see how many other guys are looking at the same woman “ especially if she is especially gorgeous/built/scantily dressed. And I want you to admit that, deep down, you sometimes like it when guys look at you (admiringly, not in a gross way.) That doesn’t mean you are going to track down that guy and have an affair with him. So give your guy a break!