How to SEXT

SEXTING- v. the act of text messaging someone in hopes of having a sexual encounter with them later; initially casual, transitioning into highly suggestive and event sexually explicit (Urban dictionary). Think of sexting as a type of foreplay or possibly the full ‘game’.  Even celebritities have been busted for sext scandals- Vanessa Hudgens, Blake Lively, and Scarlett Webmd pharmacy here Johansson were all caught sending steamy photos. But of course, sexting is much much more than nude photos. But what is proper SEXT etiquette?

1)      Start slow: just like real-life sex, you need to work-up to the hot and heavy. Keep things fun and light. Start with things like, “I just got out of the shower”, “I just bought new lingerie”, “I wish you were in my bed with me”. Get him lusting for you.

2)      Sexy word foreplay: once you’ve established that you are both interested in getting busy, continue to message dirty things you want to do to one another. Avoid abbreviating though- “I am so hot 4 u” is creepy and makes the flirting a bit ‘young’ which is not the ideal.

3)      Visuals: Men are very visual people. But for the men reading this, please do not send an unsolicited close-up pic of ‘yourself’ unless requested. In most cases a picture says 1000 words, but in this case, sexting should be kept sexy – like erotic literature and surprise pictures would make it a more pornographic.

4)      Element of surprise: keep him guessing. There are no rules on sexting sessions. Start something steamy up when you’re in the mood. Just make sure you start slow (rule #1)! You never know where he’s going to be reading your message.

5)      Keep your privates private: when sending steamy messages or photos, remember that nothing is totally secure and private. Who knows who will click through your iphone photos. There are great apps that can help you keep these moments for his-eyes-only. Snapchat, Between, iDelete, and Kik are all good options. 

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