Above all, the top asset of the successful single girl is self-confidence.
Sexiness is less about showing the right amount of cleavage or leg (or both!) and more about your state of mind. So get out there, have fun and keep these tricks in mind.
When you enter a room with confidence you attract good attention. The way you carry yourself says a lot about you. Purposeful strides and eye contact show that you are determined and ready to engage.
Always look good
Clothes don’t make the woman, but her sense of style helps to express the happiness and confidence she feels. Choose clothing that accentuates your frame, heels that elongate your legs and accessories that show you have a cool, unique sensibility.
Take the time to do your hair, pick a gorgeous perfume and make sure to leave the house looking pretty and put together. You never know who you’ll run into, after all.
Speak up, get smart
Good conversation is a powerful and sexy tool. Many ladies are old fashioned and still want the man to make the first move, but striking up a conversation tells him you are assertive and confident. But it’s not enough to say something “ you also need to sound smart. You may get his attention with a coy remark, but you’ll keep it when you show him you’ve got brains beyond the beauty.
Don’t spend all of your time as a singleton out at bars “ take a few lazy hours with the weekend paper, join a book club and check out cool pop culture websites on your lunch hour. You’ll have plenty to talk about once the flirting subsides.
Play it cool
Sexy women can match wits, show strength and independence. However, just as important as who you are, is who you are not “ don’t be too aggressive or overly self-centered in your interactions with men. Don’t monopolize the conversation “ you won’t get to know him and be able to determine if you’re compatible if you don’t listen to what he has to say.
Don’t go overboard on your appearance either “ aim for a natural, elegant look when it comes to makeup and clothes. Less is always more “ it’s best to keep guys guessing and wanting more.
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