We all know that men can be impossible to read, never mind getting them to actually open up and talk about something. So often we’re left to piece together clues from the grunts, shrugs and silence. Decoding what your crush is thinking is even tougher “ you don’t know him that well and you don’t want to press him. You like him a lot, but does he feel the same? Here are some signs that may hint if he’s interested in you “ or someone else.
He’s not as available as he used to be. If a guy likes a girl, he will find a way to be near her. If visits and date nights are drying up, he might be spending them with someone else.
He’s name-dropping. If he’s begun to casually insert another woman’s name (be sure it’s not his sister) into the conversation “ example: Oh, Jane saw that movie last week and said it wasn’t great. “ and he seems to know a lot of details about this woman, he might be paying more attention to her than to you.
He’s preening. If he never used to use hair gel, iron his shirts or stand up quite so straight around you, he may be doing it in the interest of catching someone else’s eye.
He’s constantly texting. If he’s more inseparable with his iphone than ever, he may be electronically wooing another lady.
He’s distracted. If he doesn’t seem to really be present when he’s with you “ drifting off during conversation, focusing elsewhere, seemingly indifferent to what you do and where you go “ his mind might be on someone else.
He’s moody. If he’s less attentive, irritable or seems eager to pick a fight, he may be trying to push you away with his bad attitude so that he can be free to move in a different direction without having the ever painful It’s not you, it’s me talk.
He brightens noticeably when another woman enters the room. Or acts differently when she’s around. If this is the case, you may want to give them some time alone.
You see him in public with someone else. A no-brainer, sure, but just make sure it’s not his out-of-town cousin he’s showing around.