5 Flaws He Doesn’t Care About in the Bedroom

No matter how many times your partner tells you they love you just the way you are, do you still feel self-conscious about your sex life? Getting between the sheets with someone can leave you feeling pretty vulnerable, whether you’re a lights on or off kind of girl. There are some things you can rest assured he genuinely doesn’t care about.

1. Shaved legs
You’ve charmed each other up, you’re kissing, you’re touching, you’re giggling and anticipation is building. The magic isn’t going to fall apart if he strokes your leg and it’s prickly. Hairy legs are seriously trivial in the grand scheme of things. Can you imagine a dude telling his friends how he hit it off with a girl but everything went from hero to zero because of a prickly calf? His friends would probably deem him the world’s biggest wimpo.

2. Perfect lingerie
Sassy matching twin sets are fun to buy and can make you feel sexy, but when you’re getting down and dirty, he probably won’t even notice if the bottom matches the top. If he’s more stoked about the silky embroidery on your bra strap than he is about kissing you, you may have a problem.

3. That you have inhibitions
No man realistically expects you to transform into a porn star the minute you get into the sack, moaning sexily, talking dirty and knowing exactly what to say. Just because it’s sexy time doesn’t mean you have to act a certain way. Be yourself. Breaking those walls down takes time.

4. That you don’t talk dirty
Like any other aspect of a relationship, knowing what your partner wants to hear and what you like to hear is a team effort takes work to achieve. He doesn’t expect you to open your mouth and automatically start spouting sweet and sexy nothings. If you feel better not saying anything at all, then don’t.

5. What, you don’t have a supermodel body?!
Your thighs, hips, cellulite, sticky out bones, asymmetrical parts are what make you you. Your partner chose to be here and there’s a reason he did. He won’t even think twice about your muffin top if you have bangin’ confidence. To him, a naked lady is a naked lady. Do you care that he doesn’t have a torso like Ryan Reynolds? Didn’t think so. If there were only one type of sex appeal, the world would be pretty boring.

Ultimately, the sexiest thing a woman can have is confidence. If you’re having a good time, your partner is having a good time. Try to let go of your qualms with your flaws so you and your partner can engage on a deeper level. That’s where the real sex appeal is.

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  1. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    “He won’t even think twice about your muffin top if you have bangin’ confidence”…
    “…bangin’ confidence…”???
    Really?
  2. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    oh boy, these male comments are really weakening my hope for society
  3. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    For a one night stand or even casual sex … yes the act of getting laid will overcome a smaller details even if they are a turn off (and believe me unshaved legs and “muffin tops” are that). However in a relationship the newness and conquest element is removed and you are left with the act alone, this actually means a woman will have to be more proactive in this area of the relationship as opposed to just being there. I am sorry ladies but sexual boredom for men is a fact and you can rage on about our “shallowness” all you like but it will not change this. So if you throw in some obvious turn offs and forgo attempts to find out what your partner feels is sexy, you will soon find yourself down that slippery slope of a sexless and unfulfilling relationship. This last part absolutely applies to both men and women.
  4. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    Sorry but unshaved, prickly legs are a real turn-off. No, it won’t stop us from having sex but it is something I will ask you to not let happen again. I will shave them for you if you can’t do it. And I also like a super-hot body. To me (a man) “a naked lady is not a naked lady”. I like a super-hot naked lady. Funny how the picture that accompanies this article has to super-hot looking models and the guy even appears to be waxed! LOL. I’m not sure where this writer gets her info. but at least 2 of these points do matter to guys! And if women don’t care about Ryan Reynolds torso then why are they going bananas over it? I can’t even get a decent chick unless I work out furiously. Where are these beautiful, intelligent women who don’t care about what shape I’m in? Love to meet them because I hate working out!
  5. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    Dude… spell check.
  6. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    I think they’re talking about people who are in actual relationships, not one-night stands.
  7. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    The last one is true. She doesn’t have to have a perfect body (though a women that doesn’t take care of herself is unattractive. Healthiness is attractive.). And she doesn’t necessarily have to shave her legs relentlessly.
    But a woman that doesn’t make any effort to present herself in sexy clothes (at least sometimes, not always) and learn the sexy talk or actions that her man desires is as bad as a man that doesn’t learn the romance/compliments his woman desires. If he was thoughtful enough this morning to say you look good and have beautiful green eyes, then you should be thoughtful enough this evening to say you want him to fill your tight, wet p***y with his massive c**k. That’s what he wants to hear. If those words offend you, then maybe you’re not grown up enough for sex yet.
    Why are women so thoughtless, self-absorbed and uncaring sometimes?
  8. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    Very good articles
  9. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    And to assume that “a naked lady is a naked lady”, as though all you have to do is show up and he’ll be happy, is just naive. Sometimes men will lead you to believe that, and even say that, because they’re trying to make sure you feel comfortable, and they’re being enthusiastic to make the experience fun and joyful. What they actually want is for you to do the same in return.
    I’m speaking in terms of relationships. Just like how a loving relationship is something you have to continue to build as you go along, so is a fulfilling sex life. Unless you’re a new woman every night, he won’t be happy if you just show up. And even then, he’d soon long for something more fulfilling.
  10. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    speaking as a man would we care about all or some of those things yes we do. would that stop us from haveing sex no. would it stop us from coming back again or make that promised phone call later maybe
  11. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    if your shallow maybe. A guy should love a woman for who she is, if he cant do that hes never going to be happy.
  12. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    “He won’t even think twice about your muffin top if you have bangin’ confidence”…
    “…bangin’ confidence…”???
    Really?
  13. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    oh boy, these male comments are really weakening my hope for society
  14. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    For a one night stand or even casual sex … yes the act of getting laid will overcome a smaller details even if they are a turn off (and believe me unshaved legs and “muffin tops” are that). However in a relationship the newness and conquest element is removed and you are left with the act alone, this actually means a woman will have to be more proactive in this area of the relationship as opposed to just being there. I am sorry ladies but sexual boredom for men is a fact and you can rage on about our “shallowness” all you like but it will not change this. So if you throw in some obvious turn offs and forgo attempts to find out what your partner feels is sexy, you will soon find yourself down that slippery slope of a sexless and unfulfilling relationship. This last part absolutely applies to both men and women.
  15. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    Sorry but unshaved, prickly legs are a real turn-off. No, it won’t stop us from having sex but it is something I will ask you to not let happen again. I will shave them for you if you can’t do it. And I also like a super-hot body. To me (a man) “a naked lady is not a naked lady”. I like a super-hot naked lady. Funny how the picture that accompanies this article has to super-hot looking models and the guy even appears to be waxed! LOL. I’m not sure where this writer gets her info. but at least 2 of these points do matter to guys! And if women don’t care about Ryan Reynolds torso then why are they going bananas over it? I can’t even get a decent chick unless I work out furiously. Where are these beautiful, intelligent women who don’t care about what shape I’m in? Love to meet them because I hate working out!
  16. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    Dude… spell check.
  17. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    I think they’re talking about people who are in actual relationships, not one-night stands.
  18. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    The last one is true. She doesn’t have to have a perfect body (though a women that doesn’t take care of herself is unattractive. Healthiness is attractive.). And she doesn’t necessarily have to shave her legs relentlessly.
    But a woman that doesn’t make any effort to present herself in sexy clothes (at least sometimes, not always) and learn the sexy talk or actions that her man desires is as bad as a man that doesn’t learn the romance/compliments his woman desires. If he was thoughtful enough this morning to say you look good and have beautiful green eyes, then you should be thoughtful enough this evening to say you want him to fill your tight, wet p***y with his massive c**k. That’s what he wants to hear. If those words offend you, then maybe you’re not grown up enough for sex yet.
    Why are women so thoughtless, self-absorbed and uncaring sometimes?
  19. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    Very good articles
  20. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    And to assume that “a naked lady is a naked lady”, as though all you have to do is show up and he’ll be happy, is just naive. Sometimes men will lead you to believe that, and even say that, because they’re trying to make sure you feel comfortable, and they’re being enthusiastic to make the experience fun and joyful. What they actually want is for you to do the same in return.
    I’m speaking in terms of relationships. Just like how a loving relationship is something you have to continue to build as you go along, so is a fulfilling sex life. Unless you’re a new woman every night, he won’t be happy if you just show up. And even then, he’d soon long for something more fulfilling.
  21. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    speaking as a man would we care about all or some of those things yes we do. would that stop us from haveing sex no. would it stop us from coming back again or make that promised phone call later maybe
  22. Avatar
    • Anonymous
    • January 1, 1970
    Reply
    if your shallow maybe. A guy should love a woman for who she is, if he cant do that hes never going to be happy.

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