If you’ve been dating a guy for awhile, but you’re unsure of where you stand with him, then look for these signs. If you have seen one or more, then there is a good chance you’re better off not with him.
1) Silence
If he’s not sharing anything intimate or special with you in conversations, but you always are, then he isn’t on the same level as you emotionally. Step back, or step off.
2) Self-Centered
There is nothing worse than a man who thinks and talks about nothing but himself. If your guy is one of them, there won’t be much room for you in the relationship.
3) No Introductions
To his parents, friends, or people you happen to run into while out. If you are significant to him, he’ll at least make the effort to be cordial.
4) Always Busy
If you try to make plans with him and you are constantly getting the run around, you should know that if he really wants to see you, he will at least make an effort.
5) Flirty with Friends
Though a guy may just be acting personable, key signs that he’s not just having a friendly discussion can be read in body language. For example, if his torso is facing directly at her, if he’s leaning away from you and/or avoiding eye contact, or overly touching your friend.
6) Always the Booty Call
If you’re seeing a guy and you can’t remember what he looks like by the light of day; you need to take into consideration that you’re just a booty call. If you make plans to do sex-free, day activity and he’s not interested, then it’s time to hit the road.
7) No Hand Holding
If you’re in public and you reach for his hand, does he hold it for a second before releasing, or even pull away? If so, this is a sure indicator that he still wants to appear free to other women and not attached to you.
8) The Roll Over
After having a hot session, does he roll off and away the minute he’s satisfied? If so, it’s likely that he’s distancing himself emotionally from you.
9) Inconsiderate
If you go for coffee or meal and he never offers to pay, doesn’t hold doors, or say ˜Bless You’ after you sneeze, don’t count on his manners and thoughtfulness to improve to the standards that you deserve.
10) The Give & Take Shake
If you find you are giving him everything from money to time, and you feel like you’re not getting anything back- you probably aren’t. Take a look at which way the scale is tipped, if it’s seriously askew, remember a healthy relationship has a balance of giving and receiving, and you definitely do not need to be his Sugar Mama.
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