Keeping the spark alive in your relationship is no easy task. It’s a fact that relationships “ all relationships “ roll through a rough patch every now and again and keeping yours fresh and fun can be a challenge. But with a bit of effort, it’s possible:
1. Dress Up
Remember the first year together when you would pay extra close attention to your appearance and make sure everything was picture perfect before you got together? You’d buy a new top or a cute pair of shoes, maybe spend an extra few minutes on your hair? And now, lately, he’s lucky if he sees you out of your Lululemon pants and your hair in a ponytail? Put the effort back in and pay extra attention again to your appearance. It shows you care what they think and that it means something to you to look extra nice.
2. Make Time for Each Other
Life is busy. We all know that. Kids get in the way. Jobs keep us at work a little bit later and the daily grind can be exhausting. But don’t forget to set aside a bit of time for your partner to tell them how you feel. Try to do something that’s just for him/her every day. We promise it will make the both of you feel pretty good. And while you are focusing on the little things, try to pay attention to a few of the big ones too. Set aside a night a week just for the two of you. Go out or stay in but no other distractions. Catch up with each other and be present.
3. Try Something New
Don’t forget to focus on the fun in a relationship. Yes, there are the day-to-day preoccupations, but keep noticing the funny moments and share them together. It’s a great way to keep the bond strong and fresh between the two of you.
4. Surprise Him
Don’t underestimate the element of surprise. Everyone loves a thoughtfully planned treat so take the time and make the effort to surprise your partner with something he or she wouldn’t expect.
eeping the spark alive in your relationship is no easy task. It’s a fact that relationships “ all relationships “ roll through a rough patch every now and again and keeping yours fresh and fun can be a challenge. But with a bit of effort, it’s possible:
1. Dress Up
Remember the first year together when you would pay extra close attention to your appearance and make sure everything was picture perfect before you got together? You’d buy a new top or a cute pair of shoes, maybe spend an extra few minutes on your hair? And now, lately, he’s lucky if he sees you out of your Lululemon pants and your hair in a ponytail? Put the effort back in and pay extra attention again to your appearance. It shows you care what they think and that it means something to you to look extra nice.
2. Make Time for Each Other
Life is busy. We all know that. Kids get in the way. Jobs keep us at work a little bit later and the daily grind can be exhausting. But don’t forget to set aside a bit of time for your partner to tell them how you feel. Try to do something that’s just for him/her everyday. We promise it will make the both of you feel pretty good. And while you are focusing on the little things, try to pay attention to a few of the big ones too. Set aside a night a week just for the two of you. Go out or stay in but no other distractions. Catch up with each other and be present.
3. Try Something New
Don’t forget to focus on the fun in a relationship. Yes, there are the day to day preoccupations, but keep noticing the funny moments and share them together. It’s a great way to keep the bond strong and fresh between the two of you.
4. Surprise Him
Don’t underestimate the element of surprise. Everyone loves a thoughtfully planned treat so take the time and make the effort to surprise your partner with something he or she wouldn’t expect.
