So you’re in a slump, huh? You are in desperate need of some between-the-sheets action but, well, you’re single and taking matters into your own hands (literally) has gotten kind of dull. We’ll we’re here to give you seven steps to taking your masturbation techniques from boring to mind-blowing in no time at all.
Set the mood
Just because you’re going at it solo doesn’t mean it should feel like it. Light some candles, put on some sexy underwear, and bust out the slow jams. Then close your eyes and let your imagination do the talking.
Invest in a sex toy
If there is one thing we can promise you, it is that taking your masturbation game to a whole new level can often start with the purchase of your very own sex toy…or two. Do your research and invest in a sex toy that you think will suit you best and then spend a few solid session learning all the ways it can work for you.
Discover a blended orgasm
A blended orgasm stems out of a combination of clitoral and g-spot stimulation. It the type of orgasm most women have when they are on top which is why these orgasms are so intense. Use your fingers inside to stimulate your g-spot and the base of your palm for your clit…and be prepared to lose your mind.
Watch porn
Trust us when we tell you that not all porn is alike and there will be something out there for everyone. Explore this untapped world by devoting an hour or two to discovering what you like and what really turns you on. We promise it will be well worth your time.
Utilize your bathtub
Feeling a stressed out and debating between a nice warm bath and a little touchy-touchy under the sheets? Well we’ve got a secret for you – the running water coming out of your tap can be utilized in ways you never imagined. So scoot on under it and let the stream do the work for you.
Give yourself a goal
Choose a number and set your mind to achieving it. Whether you want to have two orgasms or ten, having a goal in mind can make your solo session so much more satisfying. Who doesn’t like to feel like they accomplished something in a night?
Have sex
Masturbation is one of the best ways to get yourself revved up for sex and can actually increase your pleasure when you do. So aim to get home 15-20 minutes before your partner and get handsy with yourself before you let them get handsy with you.
